Thursday, 21 June 2007
Wednesday, 20 June 2007
Respect
There's a song by staind which has very simple yet serious important words in it. I can't remenber the title but i remember the words in a faded sort of way: Respect for your FAMILY, Respect for your FRIENDS, Respect EVERYONE, Respect is EVERYTHING.
They have never been more right, respect is everything, yet its something that is sorely lacking today!Many problems stem from the simple fact that people lack respect for others and that they don't treat people with the correct manner and in the right way.
Respect for your family- without it and without them your nothing. Yet spoilt brats everyday challenge there parents and bring them to their knees on a regular basis. Leave alone the spoilt brats even the older kids do it. Backchat their parents and trouble them to a point where they can't take it anymore. It comes down to the fact that they have an attitude and no respect. If they did they would do such things!Parents need to be accorded a certain amount of respect by almost any standard.
It comes down to attitude and how you treat other people.Just because you have a strong opinion on someone it does'nt mean that you must tell it to them to there faces if you don't know them! Always remember the old addage if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Much less if you hardly know the person! Keep those thoughts to yourself. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, true enough, however that does not mean you impose it on them!
With respect it means respect for everyone not only friends and family but those people you don't know as well. It means treating them with respect everywhere and in all situations. With that comes manners and decorum. You have no right to treat people the way you want just to get a laugh or two out. Think if the situations where reversed then what? Would you feel so comfortable if people insulted your family and friends based on the colour of your skin or your religion loudly while in your presence? I don't think so
Human beings make me sick. The way some people can degrade and debase females is appauling to say the least!That's someone's sister or daughter or wife or mother your speking about what if it where your sister or mother then what?
There are just ways off doing things and ways of treating people its just common good sense and it stems from respect. With out your nothing and don't say screw the world sometimes you got to give a shit and do things the right way.If not out of respect for others out of respect for your religion for it says in islam that we should treat those around us with respect and courteousy and if you cant respect a command of god then who can you respeect?Ask yourself that.
Thursday, 10 May 2007
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Fun Blog Stuff!
So i found all this on MJS blogs and decided to go wild heh here goes! Click on the post to see it fully!
Oh yayy Ice Man lol damn i prefer the iron dude
Hmmm i need to test this one more... Any volunteers!? ;-)
I would Have preferred the punisher but hey Hulk is cool
Hmmmm caaakkkeee....
Lol this i knew... ;-)
Def me!
So sue me i never had a journal before!
I would rather be this then normal!
My only Blessing and my only curse!
| You Are Iceman |
 You tried to live a normal life, but it just wasn't possible A bit of a slacker, you rather tell jokes than cultivate your powers Powers: turning self and others into ice, making ice weapons, becoming nearly invisible |
Oh yayy Ice Man lol damn i prefer the iron dude
| Your Kisses Are Medium-Hot |
 Your kisses are definitely sexy, but you're not about to make anyone gasp for air. You take it slow and steady... and you ramp things up when you get the right signals. Your kissing style is adaptable and adept. And people who kiss you love it! |
Hmmm i need to test this one more... Any volunteers!? ;-)
| You Are The Hulk |
 Super strong and super scary, you were never meant to be a superhero. You're not really into saving the world. And the world better get out of your way. |
I would Have preferred the punisher but hey Hulk is cool
| You Are a Lemon Cake |
 Strong, sexy, and overpowering. You know who you are, and you're not afraid to show the world your fabulous self. You're confident, charming, and extremely popular. |
Hmmmm caaakkkeee....
| Your Mind is NC-17 Rated |
 You're mind is so filthy... you should should be washing every part of you out with soap. If your thoughts can go dirty, they do. Almost everything is NC-17 to you! |
Lol this i knew... ;-)
| Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence |
 You are excellent with words and language. You explain yourself well. An elegant speaker, you can converse well with anyone on the fly. You are also good at remembering information and convicing someone of your point of view. A master of creative phrasing and unique words, you enjoy expanding your vocabulary. You would make a fantastic poet, journalist, writer, teacher, lawyer, politician, or translator. |
Def me!
| You Are a Life Blogger! |
 Your blog is the story of your life - a living diary. If it happens, you blog it. And make it as entertaining as possible. |
So sue me i never had a journal before!
| Your Quirk Factor: 62% |
 You're so quirky, it's hard for you to tell the difference between quirky and normal. No doubt about it, there's little about you that's "normal" or "average." |
I would rather be this then normal!
| You Are A Good Friend |
 You're always willing to listen Or lend a shoulder to cry on You're there through thick and thin Many people consider you their "best friend"! |
My only Blessing and my only curse!
Its Been A While
It's Been awhile since i have posted i guess i have just been busy with stuff and have had no time what so ever too get on to this damn thing!Oh well!Nways I hope everyone is okay
This will be my last post for awhile exams start in just under three weeks and i have so not started studying!Lol so i need to get started on that
As for the personal life well thats getting better, slowly. Im glad that one is done and gone somethings no matter how much you wish the opposite become toxic. Hence the title of this post if anyone knows music then they'll know that this is the title of a Staind song which has alot too it. Here are the Lyrics...
"It's Been A While"
And it's been awhile
Since I could hold my head up high
And it's been awhile
Since I first saw you
And it's been awhile
Since I could stand on my own two feet again
And it's been awhile
Since I could call you
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem
The consequences that I've rendered
I've stretched myself beyond my means
And it's been awhile
Since I can say that I wasn't addicted
And it's been awhile
Since I can say I love myself as well
And it's been awhile
Since I've gone and fucked things up just like I always do
And it's been awhile
But all that shit seems to disappear when I'm with you
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem
The consequences that I've rendered
I've gone and fucked things up again
Why must I feel this way?
Just make this go away
Just one more peaceful day!
And it's been awhile
Since I could look at myself straight
And it's been awhile
Since I said I'm sorry
And it's been awhile
Since I've seen the way the candles light your face
And it's been awhile
But I can still remember just the way you taste
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem to be I know it's me
I cannot blame this on my father
He did the best he could for me
And it's been awhile
Since I could hold my head up high
And it's been awhile
Since I said I'm sorry
Anyways all and all things go on and so does life. Went to the movies with Mary Jane and sibling the other day where i was peer pressured into eating mac Ds Bad chioce mac D's sucks the burger was putrid yucky bleh now i know why i hate the big yellow arch so much.
Anyways Ppl peace out
This will be my last post for awhile exams start in just under three weeks and i have so not started studying!Lol so i need to get started on that
As for the personal life well thats getting better, slowly. Im glad that one is done and gone somethings no matter how much you wish the opposite become toxic. Hence the title of this post if anyone knows music then they'll know that this is the title of a Staind song which has alot too it. Here are the Lyrics...
"It's Been A While"
And it's been awhile
Since I could hold my head up high
And it's been awhile
Since I first saw you
And it's been awhile
Since I could stand on my own two feet again
And it's been awhile
Since I could call you
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem
The consequences that I've rendered
I've stretched myself beyond my means
And it's been awhile
Since I can say that I wasn't addicted
And it's been awhile
Since I can say I love myself as well
And it's been awhile
Since I've gone and fucked things up just like I always do
And it's been awhile
But all that shit seems to disappear when I'm with you
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem
The consequences that I've rendered
I've gone and fucked things up again
Why must I feel this way?
Just make this go away
Just one more peaceful day!
And it's been awhile
Since I could look at myself straight
And it's been awhile
Since I said I'm sorry
And it's been awhile
Since I've seen the way the candles light your face
And it's been awhile
But I can still remember just the way you taste
And everything I can't remember
As fucked up as it all may seem to be I know it's me
I cannot blame this on my father
He did the best he could for me
And it's been awhile
Since I could hold my head up high
And it's been awhile
Since I said I'm sorry
Anyways all and all things go on and so does life. Went to the movies with Mary Jane and sibling the other day where i was peer pressured into eating mac Ds Bad chioce mac D's sucks the burger was putrid yucky bleh now i know why i hate the big yellow arch so much.
Anyways Ppl peace out
Wednesday, 25 April 2007
Addiction
Hmmm here at campus on of the many drives as most of you know is the need to satisfy hunger!And boy do i get hungry!
Now before in the past i used to loathe eating at campus and stuck to my trusted pie from the cafe.However this year i have discovered el dorado...
As many of you know by now, the former veg aunty has sold up too Uncle Cas and what was once only vegetarian cuisine is now both meat and vegetable! Now while veg aunties chips were good...Uncle Cas1s chips are better but however i digress.
Enter the golden Lamb. It's my regular order from Uncle Cas now and i think it should be NAMED after me!
One mutton burger with cheese and chips, All sauces and All salad Uncle Cas!THANK YOU
This burger is divine.Its warm,delicious,juicy,HUGE and most of all IT FILLS ME(ask my friends, they call me the human vacume, this is a hard thing to do...) LOL it is a heaven sent, Mana from the GODS!It is exactly what it says..A mutton burger with one huge ass patty, a healthy serving of chips in the burger and one good slice of cheese; all smothered in t-sauce,mayo,mustard and chilli sauce.All for R13
Now i usually reserve eating on campus for two occassions.It's either friday (special day come on) or cos i got up late and never had breakfast.However uncle cass's burgers have found me breaking the above mentioned rules on morer then one occasion!I blame my recent weight gain on these!But god ther soo good...I think last week i missed breakfast the entire week on purpose hehe.
It's official I'm addicted
Now before in the past i used to loathe eating at campus and stuck to my trusted pie from the cafe.However this year i have discovered el dorado...
As many of you know by now, the former veg aunty has sold up too Uncle Cas and what was once only vegetarian cuisine is now both meat and vegetable! Now while veg aunties chips were good...Uncle Cas1s chips are better but however i digress.
Enter the golden Lamb. It's my regular order from Uncle Cas now and i think it should be NAMED after me!
One mutton burger with cheese and chips, All sauces and All salad Uncle Cas!THANK YOU
This burger is divine.Its warm,delicious,juicy,HUGE and most of all IT FILLS ME(ask my friends, they call me the human vacume, this is a hard thing to do...) LOL it is a heaven sent, Mana from the GODS!It is exactly what it says..A mutton burger with one huge ass patty, a healthy serving of chips in the burger and one good slice of cheese; all smothered in t-sauce,mayo,mustard and chilli sauce.All for R13
Now i usually reserve eating on campus for two occassions.It's either friday (special day come on) or cos i got up late and never had breakfast.However uncle cass's burgers have found me breaking the above mentioned rules on morer then one occasion!I blame my recent weight gain on these!But god ther soo good...I think last week i missed breakfast the entire week on purpose hehe.
It's official I'm addicted
Friday, 20 April 2007
Just Friends and "Just Friends"
Ever Heard that phrase? Im sure in day to day dealings with people we have all heard it at one time or another. Now i know that people ,by nature,are generally curious beings but sometimes i think, especially in our community, that we are a little too curious for our own good.
Case in point. As a muslim guy the minute I spend the significant part of an afternoon talking to a girl alone i am immedaitley interrogated by friends and acquintances even whether there is something going on between the two of us!Everything is not as it seems people and appearances are deceiving. As a whole its mostly muslim people! What especially annoys me is the asking of questions later.
Friend: So who was that girl i saw you sitting with just now?
Me: No one, she's just a friend.
Friend: Oh yeah sure she is. You plotting her aren't you?
Me: Nooo she's just a friend!
At this point friend usually rolls eyes and smiles to him/herself (often accompanied by shaking of head). Now certainly its cool to know what going on in your friends life But People i would tell you'll if anything else was going on! Lol the phrase just friends means just that. Just friends! Oh you people of little faith sigh!
The whole assumption thing has got to stop because in the long run it causes alot of damage and unneccesary explaining o my part least of all on the girl's part. You know what they say about assumptions being the mother of all...
BLEH
Case in point. As a muslim guy the minute I spend the significant part of an afternoon talking to a girl alone i am immedaitley interrogated by friends and acquintances even whether there is something going on between the two of us!Everything is not as it seems people and appearances are deceiving. As a whole its mostly muslim people! What especially annoys me is the asking of questions later.
Friend: So who was that girl i saw you sitting with just now?
Me: No one, she's just a friend.
Friend: Oh yeah sure she is. You plotting her aren't you?
Me: Nooo she's just a friend!
At this point friend usually rolls eyes and smiles to him/herself (often accompanied by shaking of head). Now certainly its cool to know what going on in your friends life But People i would tell you'll if anything else was going on! Lol the phrase just friends means just that. Just friends! Oh you people of little faith sigh!
The whole assumption thing has got to stop because in the long run it causes alot of damage and unneccesary explaining o my part least of all on the girl's part. You know what they say about assumptions being the mother of all...
BLEH
Wednesday, 11 April 2007
When your gone
I only know that i can't change.
Everything else doesn't stay the same.
The world, and you, continues to turn and revolve
While i lie stagnant and refuse to evolve.
I'm stuck in a place, empty and cold, where happiness is devoid.
that elusive creature, which i once possessed, which i can now only avoid.
As i walk through the night and stare up into the dark sky,
the once bright, comforting stars stare at me hollow, and i produce many a sigh.
My purpose is gone, my zest lost.
once it's gone then only can i calculate it's true cost.
The fire that once burned inside of me is extinguished.
But now all has vanished and in your eyes i am no longer distinguished.
Care which once warmed and nourished my soul
has now left and turned too distant disdain and dole.
The burden i've placed upon myself feels too heavy
without you here by my side to keep me steady.
Sad stuff I know. But hey paper is a good outlet. Wrote this awhile back but it had to be published or at leas posted on my site!Nways enjoy
Arb Post a.ka. IM BACK
Guess what?? I'm Back Again lol tell your friends!
Nowwww this was suppose to be another posting of one of my really sad "somebody shoot me" poems however i have had mercy on you poor peeps and as such i have decided to post that later during the week.
I have not posted for sooo Long! Why you people may ask? Well to tell the truth really i don't know, all i know is that im glad to be back.
Currently i am back after the long weekend in Ladysmith. Glad too see my Family again. LOL my little bro baked me a cake! LOL big up to the not so little, little dude, he makes a mean cake! The town has not changed since i was last here...(suprise suprise who would have thought huh?) however the peace which once consoled my soul is now becoming to deafening with my thoughts hmmm...
So how was the long weekend? Well it was brilliant i parked off with my friends the entire weekend and that was cool we did the usual: eating out, creating, movies etc etc.
On a similar note my uncle form JHB was down in durbs that long weekend. He came with his entire in-laws family. I ended up going for supper with him twice that weekend, once on saturday and once on sunday. Now this uncle of mines rocks his pretty young about thirty something and his also the only uncle which does not mind me smoking in fron of him! Anyways i was invited by him for supper on saturday at the Al-Mahrani (formerly arabian nights) on the beach front. Now poor unsuspecting me thought cool beans supper with the uncle.WRONG!Uncle Ahmed neglected to tell me that my aunty and her family were coming with.Now I know NO ONE in Aunty Khudaija's family!I only knew my uncle! To top it all off i had landed up with the entire family! There were like forty or fifty people there!Don't get me wrong normally i'm confident however these dude where loud and had that whole family thing down! Eish remind me that when i get married i will have to go thriugh that continously (Shudder). Hmmm on a lighter note Aunty does have some really pretty girls in her family. Pretty JHB gals who know how to dress and are smart.Wayyy outta my league but hey i can dream!(there were these three sisters triplets...). Lol but i did warm up too a couple of ppl after the supper and even shared a cigar with one of the uncles! Cue supper two this time Uncle Ahmed left his wife and kids at the family Braai and took me and his friend out to supper at 2GO where we waited for a table for half an hour but the food was good an the atmosphere i digged. Now, i was kinda hoping i would end up at the braai (to see aforementioned hot chicks) however uncle Ahmed noted my discomfort the day before and took me out instead. Damn!And i really wanted to get to know the family better!Oh well next time!
On the Sports Front: My team proceeded to qualify with ease for the semi's of the Champions League yesterday crusing past a tired Psv. YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE. It was not the most spectacular of games but still ample enough for me! Speaking of which it's nice to see english teams dominating so much. It's proof of the high calibre of football that the nation plays- too bad it can't translate too their national side! So it's on to Face Chelski in the semi's (Aside: Curse you MJ you blogwhore i can see you laughing as your rich blues who buy everything knocked out a better deserving Valencia) where we shall prevail(Again). Speaking of which did anyone see the hiding that Roma received?Shame poor Roma this is a team i fancied to win the competition this year and are a favourite italian team of mines!Kudos too the Red Devils i have always loathed you'll yet respected you'll as we'll (unlike the blues, whom i just loathe now)
On an end note i will be blogging about a niggling problem i have with perceptions of relationships with muslims shortly, keep a look out for this article later this week. It's got to do with being Just Friends! This one gotta stop lol.
Nowwww this was suppose to be another posting of one of my really sad "somebody shoot me" poems however i have had mercy on you poor peeps and as such i have decided to post that later during the week.
I have not posted for sooo Long! Why you people may ask? Well to tell the truth really i don't know, all i know is that im glad to be back.
Currently i am back after the long weekend in Ladysmith. Glad too see my Family again. LOL my little bro baked me a cake! LOL big up to the not so little, little dude, he makes a mean cake! The town has not changed since i was last here...(suprise suprise who would have thought huh?) however the peace which once consoled my soul is now becoming to deafening with my thoughts hmmm...
So how was the long weekend? Well it was brilliant i parked off with my friends the entire weekend and that was cool we did the usual: eating out, creating, movies etc etc.
On a similar note my uncle form JHB was down in durbs that long weekend. He came with his entire in-laws family. I ended up going for supper with him twice that weekend, once on saturday and once on sunday. Now this uncle of mines rocks his pretty young about thirty something and his also the only uncle which does not mind me smoking in fron of him! Anyways i was invited by him for supper on saturday at the Al-Mahrani (formerly arabian nights) on the beach front. Now poor unsuspecting me thought cool beans supper with the uncle.WRONG!Uncle Ahmed neglected to tell me that my aunty and her family were coming with.Now I know NO ONE in Aunty Khudaija's family!I only knew my uncle! To top it all off i had landed up with the entire family! There were like forty or fifty people there!Don't get me wrong normally i'm confident however these dude where loud and had that whole family thing down! Eish remind me that when i get married i will have to go thriugh that continously (Shudder). Hmmm on a lighter note Aunty does have some really pretty girls in her family. Pretty JHB gals who know how to dress and are smart.Wayyy outta my league but hey i can dream!(there were these three sisters triplets...). Lol but i did warm up too a couple of ppl after the supper and even shared a cigar with one of the uncles! Cue supper two this time Uncle Ahmed left his wife and kids at the family Braai and took me and his friend out to supper at 2GO where we waited for a table for half an hour but the food was good an the atmosphere i digged. Now, i was kinda hoping i would end up at the braai (to see aforementioned hot chicks) however uncle Ahmed noted my discomfort the day before and took me out instead. Damn!And i really wanted to get to know the family better!Oh well next time!
On the Sports Front: My team proceeded to qualify with ease for the semi's of the Champions League yesterday crusing past a tired Psv. YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE. It was not the most spectacular of games but still ample enough for me! Speaking of which it's nice to see english teams dominating so much. It's proof of the high calibre of football that the nation plays- too bad it can't translate too their national side! So it's on to Face Chelski in the semi's (Aside: Curse you MJ you blogwhore i can see you laughing as your rich blues who buy everything knocked out a better deserving Valencia) where we shall prevail(Again). Speaking of which did anyone see the hiding that Roma received?Shame poor Roma this is a team i fancied to win the competition this year and are a favourite italian team of mines!Kudos too the Red Devils i have always loathed you'll yet respected you'll as we'll (unlike the blues, whom i just loathe now)
On an end note i will be blogging about a niggling problem i have with perceptions of relationships with muslims shortly, keep a look out for this article later this week. It's got to do with being Just Friends! This one gotta stop lol.
Tag Your It (Again)
Hmmm i don't think i have been officially tagged yet but anyways it will come eventually. LOL ho said don't do things in advance huh?
1. Where is your cell phone? - next to me
2. Boyfriend/girlfriend? – wish she was
3. Hair? – Neat short Black
4. Your mother? – an amazing woman
5. Your father? – works very hard
6. Your favorite item(s)? – Cell Phone, Laptop, Lanyards
7. Your dream last night? – I don't dream
8. Your favorite drink? – Stoney Ginger Beer
9. Your dream guy/girl? – wish i knew
10. The room you are in? – The Family Room
11. Your fear? – is being rejected
12. What do you want to be in 10 years? – A Good Person
13. Who did you hang out with last night? - My Quiet Family
14. What are you not? – a pathetic quitter
15. Are you in love? - Yes i am
16. One of your wish list items? – An xbox 360
17. What time is it? – it is 12:32 am
18. The last thing you did? – Watched some soccer
19. What are you wearing? – Shorts, t-shirt, glasses
20. Your favorite book? – 20 000 Leagues Under the Sea
21. The last thing you ate? - Mag-Dahl, Fish, Potatoes
22. Your life? – a roller coaster
23. Your mood? – currently chilled out
24. Your friends? – are my rocks
25. What are you thinking about right now? - my life now
26. What are you doing at this moment? - having a snack
27. Your summer? – was very mixed
28. Your relationship status? - single. fortunately? unfortunately?
29. What is on your TV screen? – it's currently off
30. When is the last time you laughed? – ten minutes ago
I tag anyone whom has not been tagged yet
1. Where is your cell phone? - next to me
2. Boyfriend/girlfriend? – wish she was
3. Hair? – Neat short Black
4. Your mother? – an amazing woman
5. Your father? – works very hard
6. Your favorite item(s)? – Cell Phone, Laptop, Lanyards
7. Your dream last night? – I don't dream
8. Your favorite drink? – Stoney Ginger Beer
9. Your dream guy/girl? – wish i knew
10. The room you are in? – The Family Room
11. Your fear? – is being rejected
12. What do you want to be in 10 years? – A Good Person
13. Who did you hang out with last night? - My Quiet Family
14. What are you not? – a pathetic quitter
15. Are you in love? - Yes i am
16. One of your wish list items? – An xbox 360
17. What time is it? – it is 12:32 am
18. The last thing you did? – Watched some soccer
19. What are you wearing? – Shorts, t-shirt, glasses
20. Your favorite book? – 20 000 Leagues Under the Sea
21. The last thing you ate? - Mag-Dahl, Fish, Potatoes
22. Your life? – a roller coaster
23. Your mood? – currently chilled out
24. Your friends? – are my rocks
25. What are you thinking about right now? - my life now
26. What are you doing at this moment? - having a snack
27. Your summer? – was very mixed
28. Your relationship status? - single. fortunately? unfortunately?
29. What is on your TV screen? – it's currently off
30. When is the last time you laughed? – ten minutes ago
I tag anyone whom has not been tagged yet
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